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Tuesday, March 12, 2013
Monday, March 11, 2013
Hello Family and Friends!
I hope that you are all doing extremely well and loving
life! This week has been pretty big for me. I have learned a lot about myself
and have recognized a few things that I have to change in order to be a better
missionary and servant of my Savior Jesus Christ, but first, and you already
know, it is time for impressions of Mexico.
1) So. The Mexican people have a very different idea of
colors that look good painted on the house. I would say, generally speaking,
that the most common types of colors would be flourescents. Lime Green, Purple,
Pink, and Orange.
2) Calling people by their skin color is not totally uncommon or even considered rude. If you have white skin, they just call you whitey. If you have black skin, they call you black. If you have brown skin, they call you brown, etc. Also, I have found out that calling someone fat can be a term of affection here if used within the family unit. Literally, I have heard husbands say to their wives (roughly translated), "Hey fatty, get over here fast because the missionaries want to share a message with us."
3) Continuing with the same train of thought as the last
impression, there are famous treats here in Mexico called Negritos, or little
black boy. On the rapper there is a black boy with a over-sized afro. They are
basically like bread with chocolate on top and in the inside. But interesting
name nonetheless.
4) So, the Jehovahs Witnesses. They knock on our door every
Saturday around 10:00 a.m. while we are studying. This is basically how it
goes. They knock. I check through the peephole just to make sure that it is
them. And then open the door really quickly. There they are. Two women, dressed
in bright colors, with their parasols and Bibles in hand. Every time I open the
door quickly and they see me in my white shirt and tie with the nametag they
always get this shocked, nervous look on their faces. One of them nervously
thumbs through the Bible saying that they just want to share one verse from the
Bible really quickly and then they will leave and the other invites me to their
next activity. I actually feel sort of bad but they never learn their lesson. I
would think that they would mark in their list that LOS MORMONES VIVEN EN ESTE
APARTAMENTO. NO TOQUEN.
I truly love this country. The more I think about the
quirky, funny things that I find every week, the more I love this country and
the people that compose it.
Elder Lopez is doing great! He is nervous and quiet but really wants to learn how to teach well and
be the best missionary that he can be..so...we are working on that! I have
really been trying to help him in every way that I can. I remember how nervous
and uncomfortable I felt during those first weeks in the field and so I always
check to see how he is feeling, or what he is thinking, and praying for
guidance on how I can help him best. We have been pounding the pavement this
week for sure. Teaching, looking for investigators, accidentally knocking on
the door of Jehovahs Witnesses when we were looking for less-active members,
etc. It has definitely been a tiring week. But so good. Because I have learned
a huge lesson that I have been trying to learn for a long time.
I have been pondering a lot about charity this week. Loving
people. Sometimes it is so hard. Because not everyone is extremely loveable.
But I took the advice in Moroni and prayed for the gift of charity. That no
matter the person, no matter what they say, what they do, or how they act
towards me, that I will love them and see them as the Savior sees them and as
my Heavenly Father sees them. I have definitely been tried in this area during
the week. A lot of rejection, some rude comments, things happening that would
normally make me criticize people in my mind, but every time I felt the desire
to say or think something that would not edify or
uplift someone else, I would check myself, not say it, and then pray in my mind
for more charity and love. And it has been working.
My goal is to love everyone the best that I can. Smile at
them. Greet them in the street. Help them to know in their minds, and feel in
their hearts that they are loved and that they are important. Little by little
I am trying to develop this love for myself, my companion, the members,
less-actives, investigators, and people that we find in the street. And you
know what? I have truly been so much more happy. More peaceful. The Lord has
blessed me with more opportunities to serve strangers in the street and members
and to love them even more deeply. Even if plans fall through, and
investigators stop progressing, and the work is hard, I still feel that
inner-peace because I know that I am doing all that I can to help the children
of my Heavenly Father and my brothers and sisters. Without charity, I have come
to find out, I am truly nothing as a missionary. It is the most important
Christ-like quality that I am focusing on developing right now in my life.
I know that Christ lives. I know that each and every one of
us are important to our Heavenly Father. He loves us. I felt his love envelope
me this week during my prayers. He so wants to train and tutor us. Sometimes we
put up our barriers, but the second we lower them, his love and power flow
through and we can feel it. I want to thank you all for what you have done for
me. The support and love and letters that I have received from you all. I love
you all very much.
Elder Nielsen
Monday, March 4, 2013
Hello Family and Friends!
Well, I can probably say that this has been the longest and
the craziest week of my mission thus far. And I am about to tell you all about
it.
Impressions of Mexico!
1) So, the dogs. Sometimes they are sweet and cute.
Sometimes they look and act like they are going to kill me. There is a colonia
in our area called the Huizachera, and it is notorious for having the most
vicious dogs in the street. So, earlier this week, Elder Romero and I were
trying to pin down a reference we received that lives in the Huizachera and we
start to walk down their street. Immediately, two dogs start getting into the
attack position and begin growling, snarling, and barking. We continue walking
down the street and all of a sudden, four dogs run out of surrounding houses
and begin growling and barking at us as well. Well, by this point, I am
breathing really heavy and just focusing on staying calm (as Elder Romero told
me...they can smell fear) and we finally make it to the end of the street. We
ask two people where the house is and they point at a house....that is at the
beginning of the street. So...we had to return. And needless to say, we
experienced the same experience, with the same six dogs all over again.
More next week. I am actually really short on time but I
want to share the big news of the week. So...on Thursday...I got the call...and
it said...that I am going to train this transfer! The next day, Elder Romero
and I head to Cuautla, I drop him off, we say goodbye, and then I head with
Elder Becerra to have a meeting with President Kusch in Cuernavaca for the new
trainers. After the meeting was over, the zone leaders told me that I had to
stay with another Elder named Elder Azuara who was companion-less like me in
the center of Cuautla. And today...I received my new companion and just arrived
back in my own area for the first time since early Friday morning! Crazy huh?
So, my new companion is Elder Lopez and he is from Veracruz,
Mexico. He is very nice. Very shy. And very quiet and nervous (I plan on
working that out of him). But he seems very excited to be here and a little
shell-shocked. I suppose all the same feelings that I had when I got here so I
can definitely relate. I really am so excited to be with and train a new Elder.
I have been thinking a lot about how I can help him and what I can do to make
him feel comfortable and understand what it means to be a missionary. I did not
have the experience that I wanted when I was trained and I do not want him to
have the same experience. So I am going to work hard. Be obedient. Love and
listen to him. And help him in any way that I can. I am actually super nervous
as well. This is the first time that I have been the Senior companion and
leading everything. But I know that my Heavenly Father will provide for me.
This week I have been thinking a lot about opposition and
the knowledge that whenever something good and grand is about to happen that
Satan is always there, pricking and poking at us, and trying to make us falter
or lose sight of what is important. I have always been particularly drawn to
the story of the encounter that Moses had with Satan in Moses Ch. 1 and the
story of the first vision and Joseph Smith. I know that this principle is very
true. That darkness, opposition, and struggles will always abound for our entire
lives. But I have also come to know and understand another principle which is
even more important to me. That God is greater and more powerful than any
opposition or doubt that Satan can throw into my path.
It is my testimony that God lives. That he loves us. That he
truly, truly cares about us. In difficult moments, in moments when I have felt
the weakest and most dependent, these have been the moments when he has made me
feel the strongest. I absolutely love my Savior Jesus Christ. The more I learn
of him and the more I teach of him, the more I love him. I truly, truly love
him. And I want to be more like him each and every day. He is the Savior of my
soul. My Redeemer. And I am willing to put everything on the line for him and
the atoning sacrifice he made for me and for every single person that has
lived, is currently living, or will live someday in the future.
So my family and friends, wish me luck! And pray for me! I
need and feel the power of your prayers and thoughts in my life. I love you all
very much. Until next week.
Elder Nielsen
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